How to Keep a Sugar Daddy Interested In You?
Well, my goal is to help some sugar babies deal with sugar daddies. While many sugar babies come here to read all my great advice, not everyone comes here for the same reason. There are three types of sugar babies who would benefit from this article: sugar babies who are ready to get their old sugar daddies back; sugar babies who are ready to marry her sugar daddy; and the sugar babies who want to keep the sugar daddy she already owns from some sugar daddy dating sites. I want to help each of you, so I'm going to introduce some strategies that will help each of you. But we want to avoid confusion today, so let's stick to the basics. All right? These methods are effective in all cases. So, let's get started.
What makes a sugar daddy promise in the first place? The word commitment is both scary and confusing. If you say the word "commitment," most sugar daddies run away, and some women are afraid of commitment too. In fact, the concept of commitment is different for everyone. You see, everyone has a mental picture of how hard they should work in a relationship and how hard the people they are dating should work. I mean, don't you have a sugar daddy template in mind? Think about the person you turned down last time. Why did you turn him down? The same goes for men. As if relationships weren't complicated enough, there seem to be about a billion different "layers" of dating in today's sugar dating world.
Let's be clear, when I say commitment, I mean exclusivity! All sugar babies want to know what makes sugar daddy commit, but in fact, there are three key factors that make sugar daddy commit: investment, choice and satisfaction.
The Investment Factor A sugar daddy is more likely to make a commitment to a relationship he's invested in in some way. So what does he need to invest? The time? Money? Love? What about these? Mainly time and emotion. Basically, anything he puts into the relationship makes it more valuable in his eyes. So now you're thinking, "what can I do to get him to commit?"
Creating interdependence. The most important thing in the sugar dating world is to have a sugar daddy you can trust, a sugar daddy you can turn to. Well, guess what, for him too. So how do you build a sense of dependency and trust in him? A lot depends on how you make him feel. The goal here is to build a sense of trust in you so that he can rely on you for something, anything, a lot of things, and not be afraid to let him need a little of you. At the same time, there is a need for him to do something for you. Like opening a jar, fixing your car, solving your computer problem. Make him feel like a man and needed. Tell him a secret, keep it small and meaningful, and trust him.
Balance and mystery. Maintaining balance is one of the most important things you can do in any sugar relationship. If a sugar relationship is fun, sugar daddies are more likely to stay interested. If you're on his side 120 percent of the time, sugar daddies are less likely to stay interested. You can achieve balance and mystery by making sure you have your own life without involving him, your own friends, hobbies and life. When deciding where to eat, choose a place. Don't hesitate. Don't do things only when it's convenient for him. Don't reschedule your time just because he asks. This maintains respect and builds balance and strength.
The Choice Factor You can create the satisfaction you want, and a sugar daddy will want to be with you more. But the truth is that if he is not satisfied and has many other options, he is unlikely to commit. This will only affect his ability to commit. You see, the worst thing a man can do is to be rejected. If they think they're going to have to deal with rejection after rejection, and if they choose to go back into dating circles, they're unlikely to be the first to jump out. This is the only one of the three that you can't control. However, you can add two others. The more satisfied and engaged he was, the less likely he was to notice the other sugar babies.
The Satisfaction Factor Everyone on this planet has certain expectations about their partner. Don't tell me you have no idea who you're going to meet. A friend of mine was lucky enough to find her boyfriend's list, and she was happy to find that she met 95% of his criteria. It helps. But if you're not so lucky, you have to have a real conversation with your sugar daddy and pay attention to what he says is important. I know this sucks, right? When someone is talking, you have to pay attention. As humans, we are hardwired to be self-centered. We talk about ourselves the most. He sometimes mentions what he finds attractive. Now, I can't tell you exactly what he's looking for, but I can tell you what most sugar daddies look for in sugar babies and sugar relationships.
Just be yourself, it's a simple truth, and sugar daddies love it. Bonus points if you happen to be a really cute person. We all like real people, don't we?
In fact, every sugar daddy wants a sugar baby he can respect. Today, social media allows you to post everything you do online. It's basically like an overview of anyone who looks at you from the outside, who you are. Whether he's just a potential sugar daddy you're trying to catch, your current sugar daddy, or your old sugar daddy, every one of his CDS wants a girl who can stand up for herself. That means no insecurity. So while we suggest you try to get sugar daddy's attention by looking your best and living a positive lifestyle, it doesn't mean you have to go around flaunting your skin and hanging your hand on any man you can catch. It makes people feel insecure and unattractive. Stick to the old saying. "Moderation in all things. “Don’t go bar hopping on Instagram. Find something that gives you confidence, whatever it is, and be your best self. Have it.
A woman who loves herself and her faults loves a man who has them all. Not only that, she helps him achieve all his goals. At least that's what he hopes.